2020-06-03 02:35 AM
Our family is in such a snowballing freefall I don't know what to list this under. I will be very vague now because of the multitude of needs. #1 my father, Gene 79yr was supposed to begin Dialysis last month BUT he just got his stent put in his arm, this takes 2 months to become viable to use. He has Stage 5 Renal Disease, COVID 19 has really thrown off his treatments. Currently he has been seeking extra coverage (I hear him on the phone) for the dialysis. At the point in the convo he says I have Stage 5 CRKD the line goes click. He also has severe Spinal Stenosis and requires surgery at all 4 levels with the L-4, L-5 being a revision, post 30 yrs. He has been told to go as long as he can or he will become worse than my mother. #2 Speaking of mother (83yr) she just had a quadruple bypass 1 year ago and in short has problems surfacing as she went to ER Monday night. Her memory is getting very bad, she is very hard to live with!!!! NOT due to her forgetting things, she has become VERY VERY, VERY, NASTY, she talks to me and my dad like a XXXX, so much so my father asked me if he could have my credit ca5rds so he can leave. I QUIT PAYING MY CARDS SO HE COULD NOT LEAVE NOW I AM IN A BIG HOLE. I am all alone, moved back home to be their live in nurse, I have a FULL plate. I need much prayer but I guess for my mom to quit being a Drama, Diva, treating me like a maid, butler, we are ALL at each others' throats with bitter talk. my dad also has replaced the septic tank 2x sincve 2018 and we were just told he needs to fix the ENTIRE drainfield and they have no money to do it. I am on Disability, they only have Social Security and collectively they have an income of about 3,100.00 monthly. They also cannot find anyone to do ….final expenses or pay for their burials, cannot find a plot. ALL OF THIS and much more is breaking all of us down. I DO NOT know what to pray so I rely on the HOLY SPIRIT to pray for me. I just really need some support because I basically moved outside on the porch. I WILL NOT sit inside!! My father stays in the "computer room/spare bedroom to stay out of my mother's screaming way, I like I said am on the outside porch, and my mother is in the Livingroom by herself. I go inside to tinkle, get the dogs, wait on mom, and back out I come. Me and dad talk on the intercom phone if need be. MY PARENTS NEED PRAYER FOR HEALTH HEALINGS, A MIRACLE FINANCIAL BLESSING so the two septic tanks can be dug up and an entire new drain field put in, THEY NEED A BURIAL PLOT, FINANCIAL COVERAGE FOR FINAL EXPENSES.. they claimed and have done bankruptcy but obviously things will still be left to pay. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.